I just had to share it as its a lovely tribute
Last night the silence was deafening.
You weren't noisy. In fact far from it. But
I could always hear you. The re-assuring sounds of you going for a drink,
making yourself more comfortable, and of course anything from gentle snoozing
to full on snoring!
The house seems so empty. Coming home last
night you weren't there to meet us. I will miss that and our deep and
meaningful conversations.
The last couple of days have been tough,
but the memories of that will fade, and I will remember you as you really were,
our ever loyal, loving friend and companion of the last 16 years.
You grew up with our kids. I am sure that
you and Chris went through adolescence together.
Every time we got home you were there to
greet us. Even if you had been out with us! Though sometimes recently we had to
wake you so you knew we were back. You were a people person, always with us,
following us round the house. I think some of that may have been your ever
hopeful & seemingly empty stomach. I still don’t know how you managed to
con all of us into feeding you breakfast so much. Food was important to you, including
self service. Be it chicken tikka in the caravan, Ice Cream from the freezer or
butter from the fridge.
You liked to dance, always joining in to
make a threesome dancing in the kitchen or lounge. You never complained, but
boy did you suffer from bad Tourette’s. I don't know where you learnt that kind
of language. Certainly not from me.
Perhaps your most endearing quirk was your
aversion to water. You hated rain, and rivers and puddles. You loved the beach,
but not the sea, and you were right to hide from the hosepipe in the garden.
You were always determined, and gave more
and went further then we could ever have expected of you. Coast walks at Tenby
spring to mind, as well as showing your much younger cousin Freya a thing or
too when walking over Brean Down.
There is so much more to miss or remember.
Your ticklish feet; cheese cures all illnesses; begging under the table;
pre-washing dishes; getting excited waiting for a take away to arrive; your bid
for freedom the day you became an Ashworth; twitchy feet when you slept;
chasing cats out of the garden; getting out of the window via the porch room
and sat waiting on the lawn just after we moved here.
You touched so many people, and were loved
by so many. I miss you so much Welly.
What a lovely tribute, makes me think of our old boy too. We never forget them, but in time we can remember them with a smile and a few less tears x
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